Keynote talk given by Jeremy Lent to The Whidbey Institute annual gala, October 2020.
“When we truly open our hearts to each other, there is no burden too heavy for us to carry together, there is no pain too deep for us to hold in each other’s arms. And it’s in that place—of feeling the Earth’s injuries, and feeling it with each other—that the alchemy emerges. It’s in the cauldron of sharing our grief with our community, of gazing at it together and not looking away, that the heartbreak turns to hope.”
It’s so wonderful to hear Tyson (Yunkaporta, author of Sand Talk) talk about how we need to listen to natural law. It’s what our modern civilization needs to hear. I’m sure most of us share with Tyson the sense that our society has trampled on natural law; that we live in a world where indigenous knowledge, and the things that are most valuable to life are ignored, while those that are most destructive are valued the highest.
Speaking here from Northern California, we’ve been sharing with Tyson and his fellow Australians the grim experience of what happens when natural law is violated. It was less than a year ago that we were all horrified by the pictures coming out of Australia of apocalyptic wildfires—fires that were estimated to have killed a billion animals in the Outback. And it was just a month ago that those of us living here in the Bay Area woke up to our own vision of doomsday—a day without daylight, as the smoke from millions of acres of wildfires raging across the northwest settled over our skies, allowing nothing but a blood red glow to penetrate.
But of course, those of you here today don’t need these harbingers of doom to know that something is terribly wrong with where our world is headed. We all know, in spite of everything our media does to deflect our attention, that our global society is careening at an increasingly rapid rate toward the precipice. We know that people are suffering out there as a result of callous economic policies, that the onset of coronavirus has made that suffering even greater—and that increasing climate breakdown will only lead to deepening misery, with massive droughts and famines, and hundreds of millions of climate refugees forced to abandon their homes in desperation with no-one willing to receive them.
We know that the natural world is reeling from a relentless rampage of human exploitation. That the Amazon rainforest—the lungs of the Earth—is disappearing at the rate of more than an acre a second. The World Wildlife Fund recently reported that since 1970, animal populations worldwide have declined by 68%—and in Latin America, by a mind-boggling 94%. The richness of nature is getting virtually wiped out in our lifetime.
It’s impossible to face these realities head on without feeling your heart break. Speaking for myself, when I’ve contemplated this humanmade enormity, I’ve sometimes felt swallowed up into an infinite abyss of darkness. Is it any wonder that people turn away from facing these facts, that they see one of those frightening headlines warning about climate breakdown and they click anywhere but there, read their Facebook feed, check out the latest tweet, watch the report on this week’s political scandal? We live in a world designed to keep us numb—a culture spiked with incessant doses of spiritual anesthesia conditioning us to deaden our feelings, and adapt to the daily grind.
But it’s that very heartbreak that can free us from the consensus trance that our society imposes on us. The realization of our true nature, and the agony of life’s destruction at the hands of this civilization, are two sides of the same coin. That’s because, when we awaken to our true nature as humans on this beautiful but fragile Earth, when we feel the life within ourselves that we share with all other beings, then we recognize our common identity with all of life. We live into what Thích Nhât Hanh calls our interbeing.
And as we open awareness to our interbeing, our ecological self, we experience ourselves, in the words of Albert Schweitzer, as “life that wills to live in the midst of life that wills to live.” And then, we realize the deep purpose of our existence on Earth is to tend its living system, to tend Gaia, and participate fully in its ancient, sacred unfolding of vibrant beauty. And when we see the relentless way that beauty is being eviscerated, Gaia’s pain becomes our pain. It’s not just happening in the forests and the deep oceans, it’s happening to us—to our own ecological interbeing. As Thích Nhât Hanh puts it, we “hear within us the sounds of the Earth crying.”
But that pain of the Earth crying . . . it’s too much for any one of us to hold by ourselves. And that’s where we need to turn to another equally important dimension of our interbeing: our shared community of caring. When we truly open our hearts to each other, there is no burden too heavy for us to carry together, there is no pain too deep for us to hold in each other’s arms.
And it’s in that place—of feeling the Earth’s injuries, and feeling it with each other—that the alchemy emerges. It’s in the cauldron of sharing our grief with our community, of gazing at it together and not looking away, that the heartbreak turns to hope.
But let’s be clear what I’m talking about when I use the word “hope.” I’m not talking about the odds we might give for the likelihood of a positive outcome. Hope is not optimism. It’s something completely different. Rather than a prognostication, it’s an attitude of active engagement in co-creating our future. In the words of Václav Havel it’s a “deep orientation of the human soul that can be held at the darkest times . . . an ability to work for something because it is good, not just because it stands a chance to succeed.”
“To work for something, just because it is good.” This kind of hope is itself a transformation: from a noun to a verb. The alchemy takes place when we feel the heartbreak, with our community, so thoroughly within ourselves that there is nothing else to do but get engaged. Just like, when you feel physical pain in your body, you are moved reflexively to do something about it, so when we feel the Earth’s pain throughout our being, we are naturally moved to action. Because true knowledge isn’t just an intellectual idea, it’s something that infuses our entire body. One of the great sages of Chinese thought, Wang Yangming, made this crystal clear when he said: “There have never been people who know but do not act. Those who are supposed to know but do not act simply do not yet know.”
And something I’m sure about is that everyone here today is drawn to the Whidbey Institute because you do know, and you are impelled to action. And there is so much we can be doing to participate in the Great Transformation our global society needs to move from its current self-destructive path to one that offers a brighter future. It’s not just a matter of fixing a few things. Our civilization needs to be transformed at the deepest levels. We need to move from our current wealth-based society that’s been built on exploitation, on seeing people and the natural world as mere resources, to one that, like Tyson said, is based on natural law—an ecological civilization. What’s required is a metamorphosis of virtually every aspect of the human experience, including our values, our goals, and our daily norms.
Sounds like a tall order? I’m sure, when a dozen or so Quakers gathered in London in 1785 to create a movement to abolish slavery, people told them “Impossible! Our economy is based on it.” Within half a century, slavery was abolished throughout the British Empire. When Emmeline Pankhurst founded the National Union for Women’s Suffrage in 1897, it took ten years of struggle to muster a few thousand courageous women to join her on a march in London—but within a couple of decades, women were gaining the right to vote across the world. There is a crucial lesson to learn from these, and other, examples—like all self-organized, adaptive systems, society changes in nonlinear and unexpected ways. And oftentimes, the change is catalyzed by just a few, visionary souls working together against the odds—because they know what they’re doing is right.
We may not know what the future holds for humanity, but we do know that every day of our lives, we can choose to live into the future we wish for ourselves and for the rest of life. And just like the mycorrhizal underground network in the forest that trees use to support each other, when we connect with each other, we’re part of a powerful network that’s accomplishing something very different than what we may read about in the daily headlines.
Keep in mind that, as the current system begins to unravel on account of its internal failings, the strands that kept the old system tightly interconnected also get loosened. The old story is losing its hold on the collective consciousness of humanity. As waves of young people come of age, they are increasingly rejecting what their parents’ generation told them. They are looking about for a new way to make sense of the current unraveling, for a story that offers them a future they can believe in.
That is the great work that I believe the Whidbey Institute, and many of you present here today, are engaged in. Creating that new story, and living into it, is the alchemy of heartbreak and hope that we are generating together. And I, for one, am excited to be a part of this epic moment when we, together, can participate in co-creating the possibility of humanity’s flourishing future on a regenerated Earth.
Jeremy Lent is author of The Patterning Instinct: A Cultural History of Humanity’s Search for Meaning, which investigates how different cultures have made sense of the universe and how their underlying values have changed the course of history. His upcoming book, The Web of Meaning: Integrating Science and Traditional Wisdom to Find Our Place in the Universe, will be published in Spring 2021 (New Society Publishers: US/Canada | Profile Books: UK/Commonwealth). For more information visit jeremylent.com.
16 thoughts on “The Alchemy of Heartbreak and Hope: A Spiritual Practice for Our Time”
Thanks for this beautiful piece Jeremy, it came at a time I needed it. Appreciating your framing of hope 🙏
Hi Jeremy, you say that the natural world is reeling from a relentless rampage of human exploitation. Isn’t this seeing things in the same duality that you are trying to overcome ?
Ontological dualism leads to seeing humans as separate from nature, seeing nature as a machine without intrinsic worth, and therefore believing it’s OK to use nature simply as a resource to exploit. It’s not dualism to recognize that our current civilization is destroying the natural world, to feel its pain, and to engage in defending life.
You also write – “And then, we realize the deep purpose of our existence on Earth is to tend its living system, to tend Gaia, and participate fully in its ancient, sacred unfolding of vibrant beauty. And when we see the relentless way that beauty is being eviscerated, Gaia’s pain becomes our pain.”
This is flying in the face of what the vast majority of what those who have spiritually awakened say – namely that the deep purpose of our life is freedom from suffering and our nature is untrammelled and untrammellable bliss and a beauty that underlies all changing circumstance. What are they getting wrong ?
Thank you for raising this profound question. Yes, on one level you describe well what many spiritual traditions reveal as the end point of their paths. But focusing attention solely on these ends can lead to dangerous spiritual bypassing. As integrated living organisms, we continue to be engaged with the world, and remain compassionately connected with its suffering. The bodhisattva path is emblematic of what I’m trying to describe here, where the awakened person turns away from nirvana and vows not to rest until all beings are freed from suffering.
I see it as fractal layers: it’s possible to be in touch with the bliss and beauty on one layers, and feel the suffering of the world and engage to transform it on another level. They’re not mutually exclusive. In fact, I don’t think one can be fully experienced without the other.
I go in detail into these questions in my upcoming book, The Web of Meaning.
“The bodhisattva path is emblematic of what I’m trying to describe here, where the awakened person turns away from nirvana and vows not to rest until all beings are freed from suffering.”
But what kind of suffering ? I live on a street with thousands of people who face virtually no danger, have running water, electricity, nice houses, a welfare state to fall back on, any number of therapies to help them – everything but enlightenment.
Nothing wrong with all those things, I like the comfy life myself, but many people seem to think that spirituality and eco-socialism are basically the same thing with the same goals and outcomes. Others seem to think the same about laissez fair capitalism. Is there any real evidence for either ?
Once all people of the world have clean water, renewable energy, security, a stable climate, an organic vegan diet – the full sustainable bit (throw in some social justice goals too for good measure) – will they all suddenly become enlightened ?
Problem with that is there are enlightened people now who seem fine (better than fine, profoundly blissful) with the world as it is, and that seems to be the point of the endeavour.
Also while I’m here – I see a lot of play made about dualism being a destructive Western phenomena, as if India and China lived in a radically different way to the Ancient Greeks. Is this really true ?
If the people of the East really saw the world as a living harmonious whole – why did they need all those famous spiritual teachers to show them the way to non-duality ?
India and China had empires, science and technology, undoubtedly the pollution that goes with these, and millions of people living, apparently, in duality just like the Greeks and like us. Didn’t they ?
Do so few Japanese sign up to be monks because the population is already free of dualities, or because they are pretty much like the rest of the world’s people and not that interested ?
Just because a cultural philosophy claims the world is a living whole, doesn’t mean the people of that culture experience it. We have a state religion in the UK which likewise doesn’t represent how people really experience their lives.
Some people say that the rate at which people are becoming spiritually awakened is increasing, but if that’s the case then Westernisation seems to go hand in hand with this, instead of being an obstacle.
So it’s not really clear to me why Europeans are supposed to be singularly dualistic, other than by reputation of the official philosophies of the societies of West and East. It looks like an issue of degree rather than type.
I know there are cognitive studies showing that Eastern people frame the world a bit differently, but how far does that really matter, and is that really because they didn’t have Plato and Socrates ?
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I can sum up part of my point by referring to the COP poster you put on this blog which says,
“We are not fighting nature. We are nature defending itself”.
If we ask – defending itself from what, isn’t the answer – nature ?
It’s only a poster, but I think it does illustrate how many people see really see themselves – fighting against some supernatural force that isn’t in the natural order, or against a nature gone bad, or an inauthentic nature.
It seems like a reiteration of the christian mythology – a part of nature rebels and sets itself against the righteous, tempting a fallen humanity to their doom. With the same difficult questions about how anything could truly separate itself from the will of the creator.
Maybe I should keep quiet about all this divvil talk lest I wind up on a stake, if people want to invent new religions who am I to naysay them? 🙂
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I thought I’d add a little more to my point about the supposed growing spirituality of the human race.
Rather than guessing, we can look at some of the few attempts to survey the broad population of the world about what they are actually experiencing. As far as America goes – here is evidence supporting the idea that more people are becoming spiritually aware or awakened.
…says that between 2007 and 2014, the number of Americans reporting spiritual peace and wellbeing grew by 7%, and the number experiencing wonder about the universe grew by 7%.
This is the period of the banking crisis and it’s austerity aftermath. It’s also a period of increasing ecological destruction and pollution.
This doesn’t read like a population in spiritual crisis.
So how is this to be squared with the message of the many people, on the left and the right, who say life is getting worse ? Either it’s getting worse due to the spread of capitalism, or it’s getting worse due to the spread of social liberalism – which are both true simultaneously 🙂
Surveys like these tend to compare various religions and atheists, it would be useful to include people having some sort of ecospiritual bent.
There are some sort of inklings of such research https://www.liebertpub.com/doi/10.1089/eco.2018.0065
Maybe life has peaked, and we’re as spiritually peaceful, as a species, as we’re going to get – it’s the calm before the storm.
But what if it isn’t ?
Your thoughts ?
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One more thing and I’m done….
What’s the real deal about stewardship of the Earth ?
Everything I’ve seen about sustainability seems to be based on the assumption that we should keep the planet at a friendly holocene temperature in perpetuity, and that this is “saving nature”, as well as ourselves.
But the reality is we are in an interglacial, our comfy holocene is a blip, and the “natural” course of things is a return to glaciation – which has been delayed by AGW.
Therefore any sustainability that maintains the comfy and stable climate of the holocene is profoundly “unnatural”.
Stewardship seems to really mean control, climate controlling the planet to make it hospitable for our agricultural civilization.
I dare say that there is a segment of the sustainability movement, and probably of sci-fi fans, that gets this, but in the public conversation there is a large and obvious conceptual blank after notionally bringing CO2 under control.
Is there a reason for this – other than the need to spin necessary myths for public consumption ?
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… maybe don’t answer that, I get the picture… 🙂
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…nudge nudge wink wink…
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People like to talk about the Western dualism, the mechanical cartesian world view. But even as they decry it in favour of something more organic, they seem to believe in it. They seem to believe that if something is made in a spirit of Western mechanistic thinking that it must therefore really be mechanical and unalive.
So I like to post a quote by Krishnamurti sometimes, to see if people really get it. I chose him because he’s famous and because it’s a very typical spiritual experience. But it could be any number of others including myself, and maybe yourself too.
“I had the first most extraordinary experience. There was a man mending the road; that man was myself; the pickaxe he held was myself; they very stone which he was breaking up was a part of me; the tender blade of grass was my very being, and the tree beside the man was myself. I almost could feel and think like the roadmender, and I could feel the wind passing through the tree, and the little ant on the blade of grass I could feel. The birds, the dust, and the very noise were a part of me. Just then there was a car passing by at some distance; I was the driver, the engine, and the tyres; as the car went further away from me, I was going away from myself. I was in everything, or rather everything was in me, inanimate and animate, the mountain, the worm, and all breathing things. ”
Driver, engine, tyres, pickaxe – in this experience they are all rendered with the quality of living being – regardless of the philosophy of those who engineered them.
People torture themselves about how they can be ‘natural’ or how society can be made more ‘natural’, but isn’t the ‘natural’ just a phantom of our own making ?
I think my point is – the destruction of the ecosystem isn’t a spiritual question, and isn’t anything to do with any fundamental ontological difference between the natural and the artificial, it’s a practical one – do you want a load of pollution or not ? Do you want enough to go round, or not ? Can you think of a better way to do things, or not ? And if that answer comes from a human mind then it won’t be ‘natural’ anyway.
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So… thought experiment… you could have a publisher – printing books using machinery made by someone who’s a die-hard materialist engineer, powered by the nearest coal plant.
On that printer you could print three books – the works of Descartes, a treatise on ecospirituality, and a meditation manual.
The reader of Descartes books ends up thinking that the employees of the company are machines (or, OK, maybe just the pets of the employees).
The reader of the ecospiritual treatise thinks (or feels) the people are alive and the printing machinery is dead and lifeless.
The reader of the meditation manual ends up seeing everything as alive including the coal plant.
Conversely, those books could be published by a super eco-aware worker’s co-op, on organic hemp, using solar powered presses who plant a tree for every ton of books they make…. and you could end up with the same result.
But the carbon footprint of the two – yeah that would be different.
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What purpose does Western duality serve in Gaia’s masterplan ? That’s a good question 🙂 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JEenKy1S4S0
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….so I thought I’d drop a couple more examples down here
One morning, I decided to rent a little motorbike to have a look round the island… From the start of this ride round the island, I was in a meditative frame of mind. It was not a mere ride, but a meditation. I was in a state of deep peace, without cares, without worries of any sort. My spirit was totally calm. I was living for the present moment, here and now…. I was in perfect harmony with everything surrounding me. During my peaceful, meditative ride, I stopped for a moment here and there at the roadside, without getting off the motorbike, so as to enter into deeper communion with everything around me….I was bathed in a Silence of Unfathomable Depth and Intensity, which is Eternal Eloquence. That Silence taught me without words, by deliciously intense waves of Love and Bliss. It Is Infinite Presence. Perfect Peace. In a Perfect Unity, it made me aware that I am Soul, Infinite, Unlimited, Immortal, Eternal, Indestructible. Eternally and perfectly happy, peaceful and free.”
In this account the person didn’t think his motorbike was ruining the universe, or separating him from the divine, or of a different ontological category, or that it was polluting, or that the engineers that made it were hung up on Cartesian dualism. 🙂
Ed Mitchell ~~
“I had completed my major task for going to the moon and was on my way home and was observing the heavens and the earth from this distance, observing the passing of the heavens. As we were rotated, I saw the earth, the sun, the moon, and a 360 degree panorama of the heavens.
The magnificence of all of this was this trigger in my visioning. In the ancient Sanskrit, it’s called Samadhi. It means that you see things with your senses the way they are – you experience them viscerally and internally as a unity and a oneness accompanied by ecstasy.”
I’ve never read that Ed Mitchell’s experience was ruined by thinking about the artificiality of his space craft, or all the scientists and engineers down on Earth, or any of that. No messages from Gaia telling him NASA was an evil patriarchal plot to destroy the planet.
Nope – no alienation at all.
There are so many of these on the internet, I struggle to think why ecospiritual people seem to ignore it all – but we live in divided times, and even after spiritual experience people tend to stay in their religious silos – christian, muslim or whatever.
Maybe one reason the environmental movement is failing is because it’s high priests keep telling people that their technology is sinful, and that only people who recycle and work on transition towns are following the One True Faith. Or that a genuine spiritual experience will somehow inform people that trees are good and fridges are bad – when countless people see it otherwise.
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